How to play the game of Fly


Last week I casually mentioned that my kids were outside playing the game of Fly and was totally surprised to learn that many people had never heard of this old-school game.

I spent a good part of my childhood playing the classic game of Fly with my sisters. Before we got to play, we’d spend ages trying to find enough sticks to get the game going. It helps my kids that they live next to the bush, but then they will never know the drawn-out frustration of trying to find the ‘right’ stick on a suburban block, and that’s it’s own kind of special memory…

After you got the sticks, you’d set up and get the game going. It’s not a fast game, it’s no an easy game. If you want to win, the game of Fly challenges you to reach a bit further and try a little harder. Hmm, you might say that Fly is the kind of thing kids used to do before screens…

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Best of all, kids of all ages (that means you!!) can play it together. As many kids as you like. This is a great one to play along the nature strip with all the kids from the neighbourhood. Introduce your friends and family to the game of Fly and see how much they love it.

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How to play the game of Fly

What you need

  • A long, flat, preferably grassy, place to play. Nature strips were invented for this game.
  • At least five sticks, preferably straight and roughly the same size. You can add as many as you like.

That’s it!

What you need to do

Line the sticks up roughly a foot apart.

How to play the game of Fly - line up the sticks

Decide who’s going first (rock, paper, scissors is always a good one for this).

Line up your sticks

Line up and take it in turns to step through the sticks, making sure you don’t touch a stick with your feet (if you touch a stick, you’re out!). Be careful when the sticks are still very close together as it’s just as easy to get out by knocking a stick as it is later when the sticks are much further apart. Especially if you have big feet!

How to play the game of Fly - step carefully in the beginning

Once successfully through, you do the biggest leap you possibly can over the last stick (in other words, you fly!).

How to play Fly - start with a leap

How to play the game of Fly - leap between the sticks

Stay wherever you land and then choose one of the sticks in the row to be placed behind your heel to mark the place where you landed.

How to play Fly - place the stick behind their heel

Imagine each stick has a number from 1 (the first stick in the row) through 5 (or as many sticks as you have). If you call “stick number 2”, the next person in the line will take the stick from position number two and bring it to place behind the heel of your foot.

As you can imagine, the sticks quickly move further and further apart and the game gets much harder.

How to play the game of Fly - step by step

You are out if you touch a stick with your feet or if you need to take more than one step between each stick.

The winner

Keep playing until there is only one person left who can fly through the sticks. They are the winner!


It’s actually surprisingly complicated to explain this simple game, so here are young Max and Lottie to show you how to play the game of Fly. Give it a go at your place!

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How to play the game of Fly

Written by Bron Maxabella

Bron is the founder of Mumlyfe and is so happy to welcome you here. Bron has been writing in the Australian parenting space as Maxabella for more than seven years and is mum to three mostly happy kids and wife to one mostly happy husband. Mostly happy is a win, right?

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